Scrubs...and relationship
I am soooo hooked up with watching the sitcom "Scrubs" these day - my attitude is like "Gosh, I can soooo totally relate with it". I feel like I am like Elliot (in a way); the indecisiveness, the neurotism (not as extreme as her), the feeling of needing constant mentor while doing my job and i feel i have to work extra hard just to keep up with other junior doctors.
There is one episode of Scrubs which discussed about relationship (and why do we want to become what we are), and I was deeply moved by the truth in it. Honestly, if a couple is right for each other from beginning, it does make a relationship a lot easier. The right couple go through the same shits and craps as any other couple, but they wade through it somehow. Nik & I have gone through some of the worse shits (illness, my family issues, finance, visas etc) in our life in the past couple of years, alhamdulillah, we are still together. Now both of us have started building back our life properly, as in live together in our own house in the same country and no longer the long distance crap.
These days, it works, works and works. His work as a chef does not give him a lot of time off. When I off during the weekends, he worked. When he off during the weekday, I am working. I am dreading when I started the night shifts next week - urgh, 7 days of us not seeing each other properly at all.When I go to work, he comes back from work. When I am back, he is going to work. Tak best betul. Luckily going to get 5 days off after that, so hopefully we would be able to make up for the lost time. I missed him, my bestfriend and my husband. We did talked about making some kind of saving, then tak payah keja lagi dah. We can just go on holidays, see friends and enjoy each other company. Malas betul nak pegi keja...hehehe.
There is one episode of Scrubs which discussed about relationship (and why do we want to become what we are), and I was deeply moved by the truth in it. Honestly, if a couple is right for each other from beginning, it does make a relationship a lot easier. The right couple go through the same shits and craps as any other couple, but they wade through it somehow. Nik & I have gone through some of the worse shits (illness, my family issues, finance, visas etc) in our life in the past couple of years, alhamdulillah, we are still together. Now both of us have started building back our life properly, as in live together in our own house in the same country and no longer the long distance crap.
These days, it works, works and works. His work as a chef does not give him a lot of time off. When I off during the weekends, he worked. When he off during the weekday, I am working. I am dreading when I started the night shifts next week - urgh, 7 days of us not seeing each other properly at all.When I go to work, he comes back from work. When I am back, he is going to work. Tak best betul. Luckily going to get 5 days off after that, so hopefully we would be able to make up for the lost time. I missed him, my bestfriend and my husband. We did talked about making some kind of saving, then tak payah keja lagi dah. We can just go on holidays, see friends and enjoy each other company. Malas betul nak pegi keja...hehehe.
